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It felt kind of like a game show when I went to the mailbox and saw that thick envelope waiting for me. My first thought that ran through my head was "and the results are in" like we were announcing the winner of some grand prize. But alas, I knew just what that enveloped held. Just what it was gonna say. What I didn't know or expect was how I was gonna feel opening that envelope, and reading those words.
That envelope of course contained the "OFFICIAL REPORT" from one Dr. Davis. Collin's developmental pediatrician. When Matt and I met with Dr. Davis two weeks ago to discuss her findings she presented it all with a kind smile, and sweet voice. The women oozes compassion. She presented everything in a way that even with out my back ground in special needs that I could understand. Making sure to explain what the names of each disorder/disability was, what that meant and where to go from here. It felt more like sitting down with a friend and talking. Although the news she was giving us was hard to hear there was comfort in her voice and the words she chose.
Sitting down to read the report was a whole nother thing. It was clinical and sterile. With terminology like NLD-NOS and VPD. The words weren't unkind, and they weren't shocking, it was what we already knew..but they were technical and with out compassion and they sat in my stomach like a rock. There it was in black and white, all of my child's delays. All he has going on. It was like a slap in the face that this is reality. Collin DOES have a Nonverbal learning disability that is Not otherwise specified (this is the NLD-NOS). He DOES have a Visual processing disorder (VPD). Along with the other things I have shared with you in the last post.
Last night I got to go to a high school play and watch my cousin Heidi perform. She was AMAZING by the way. My Aunt Pauline was also there and before the show started we chatted. She mentioned that she had read the blog and had no idea all of this was going on. I shared with her how we had gotten the report and how it made me feel. She looked at me dead in the eye and said "Kerri, all you can do is take that and move forward, you can't look back. It's not gonna change it. Just take this move forward." These words really spoke to me. So I thank you for that Matante! That is just what I am gonna do. Take this concrete info and run with it.
The first place I am running to is the copy machine. Since Dr. Davis per the Hipa law is only allowed to share this report with other Dr's (that I give permission to) I will be making a copy for Collin's special needs co-ordinater at school. As well as for his class room teacher and for his sped teacher. I also plan to call a team meeting. I know there are less than 30 days left to the school year, and since they have 10 days to meet with me there will be less than 20 by that point..but I want and need to give them ALL the information I can. Make the proper changes to his IEP so that going forward, going into the 2nd grade these things will be in place from DAY 1.
Aside from meeting with the school, our other next step is to meet with the genetics Dr. this will happen on June 26th. Our hopes with this is to classify exactly what type of NF Collin has. To have a definitive answer there. Not that he will be able to change anything. NF isn't "Curable", but just to have more answers in the great Collin puzzle. We will also have Collin's eyes re-checked as MOST kids with visual processing disorders require glasses. He will go to Dr. Weisberg on July 9th. This was actually already set up before any of this came about. In Dec when Collin went for his annual eye exam Dr. Weisberg felt that Collin was "boarder line" for needing glasses and wanted to re-evaluate in 6 months. So those are our next few things to happen. I suspect I will be back with an update in the next two weeks to share the outcome of Collin's team meeting.
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